Soul Ties

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[00:00:42] Episode 84, Soul Ties. Soul Ties. Soul. So, last week, remember what I said before this show? I said, listen, Coach, I don't think we're going to be able to do no one time on this one. So, during the middle of the week, what'd you say? Man, I got a topic? Yeah, I need some help. But, the reason it's so convenient is because when you're in this lane, it's only right that you kind of stay here because it's too much to talk about. Right, right. So, we introduced...

[00:01:11] We skirted the top of a lot of generational curses. Right. But, this one, we're going to get in depth of one of them, which is Soul Ties. Right. What we did was just introduce, basically, generational curses, and we're about to go into it. Right, right. And one aspect, among many... It's Soul Ties. Yeah. Ungodly Beliefs, which we'll talk about that more. Soul hurts, spirit soul hurts, all that. So, this day, we'll talk about Soul Ties. Yes.

[00:01:37] So, you put on Facebook with clickbait. It got them. Yeah. With your body count. Right. With your body count. Why do you... I thought you was going to name that this. Well, we'll get into that a little later. Okay. All right. But, the question was, when I think about Facebook and social media, but I'll just say Facebook, because that's the main one I'm on. Is that a form of a Soul Ties? Because, let me say why I say this. Okay.

[00:02:05] Because, Facebook, with Facebook, we are listening to people who we have had in our lives for, quote, unquote, the reason or the season, and they've gone in our life. But, now, we're reconnected with them and listening to their spirit. For example, you went to kindergarten with some people. Right. After kindergarten, y'all went your separate ways, some of them. Right.

[00:02:33] But, now, somebody on Facebook says, hey, remember me from kindergarten? But, now, you're listening to their thoughts, their spirit. But, when they make comments, you see women who you've had relationships with. Okay. Now, to answer, because that's a good opener, is social media and Facebook, et cetera, Instagram, all that, is that a Soul Tie? Because of the definition of it, it doesn't qualify as a Soul Tie. But, it could be a type of it, though.

[00:03:03] It's a vehicle. It could lead to it. But, it's the title, like, that takes the intimacy. I got you. The actual, you know what I'm saying? Right, right. Yeah. When, and see, here's the thing about what people don't understand about a Soul Tie, which, I don't know if people understand. They might not understand it. Tell them what you're saying. We're assuming that, right? A Soul Tie is, it comes from when you have been intimate with a person. You know, male, female, female.

[00:03:30] You know, you begin to take on that person's persona. Right. Their characteristics. Qualities. Their habits. Habits. That are not. Good or bad. Right. Good or bad. And you, they come out of nowhere. They become a part of you. Why in the world? I never had this before. They're a part of you. You were going, yeah, you become an empath with that person. Exactly. That's the right word. Empath. Right. Now, you're very empathetic, reason being, is because you connected to that person's soul. Soul, right.

[00:03:59] So, having said that, let me say this. You thought you were just getting a hit. Right. But it's actually, you connected. You have slept with her and whoever else she slept with. Right. So, whoever, every person she's been intimate with, you're taking on her persona. And theirs. And their characteristics. And their habits. And their thoughts. Sharing souls. Exactly. Right. And if they're cursed. Right. Right. You're taking all of this on. Yeah. Now, don't let this alarm you. There's a way to break it. Mm-hmm.

[00:04:28] But we're trying to bring awareness first. So, we can see the severity of it. Sure. And then, so, so, Coach's name. Ah, man, that caught me. So, Coach put it on social media. He put this. Hey, we're going to have this show. We're going to be recording. Look forward to it. He put soul ties. What's your body count? What's your body count? That just. So, that triggered this call I'm about to make now to this young lady. Her name is T-Michael. Okay. We can call her Ty. Okay. Okay.

[00:05:01] She, when she saw it, she immediately called me. She was like, when are we recording? I'm like, okay. Blah, blah, blah. She was like, I got something to say. Okay. I said, okay. I said, let me tell Coach. And then, so, we're going to give her a call. So, this is impromptu. Yes. And, can we get on with theme music, too? Yeah, let's get on theme music. Let's get the theme music. Because, yeah. Yeah. This is about to be a trip. So, listen. We're about to get the whole intro and everything.

[00:05:32] Welcome to On and Out to Feel the Podcast with a purpose. We got to hang a few of Coach. That's for sure. This is your boy Coach Barson, a. A.K.A. Still the Nation since 1976. We got the infamous Yoda man since 1968. Let's get right into this. And this is a playing ride with it. This is going to be good. Let's pray before we get out. Yeah. Let's pray before we call. God first. Right. All right. This is a prayer for release and renewal. Okay.

[00:06:01] Heavenly Father, grant us the wisdom to recognize the invisible threads that bind our hearts. Where there are unhealthy ties rooted in pain, regret, or toxic attachments. We ask for your grace to break them and set us free. Protect and strengthen the healthy divine connections that bring peace, joy, and purpose. Grant us the courage to let go of what drains us and the freedom to walk forward in your light. Amen. All right.

[00:06:31] So, cover this call. Yeah, let's call. So, who are we calling? I don't even know. Tamika. Her name is Tamika. She posts on her stuff? Yes. Okay. I think I've seen her. Yeah. You know this is on and off the field. The podcast with a purpose. We got a call. We got a call on. Her name is Tamika. How you doing, Tamika? I'm good. How about you? I'm good. We got Coach Boston. I'm going to speak to you. How you doing? I'm good. All right. So, we spoke earlier. Yeah. Welcome to the show.

[00:07:01] So, we spoke earlier, right, about the subject we were talking about. And you're well aware of what we're talking about, correct? Absolutely. So, again, audience, we're talking about soul ties. And particularly, we're talking about what's your body count. So, what's your body count? Oh! Why are you asking me at this age in the game what my body count is? So, let me, no, seriously. Like, who wouldn't really keep it track? So, let me ask you this. Let me ask you this.

[00:07:31] No, seriously. Are you, when it comes to that, you understand what body count is. You know what that is, right? Yeah. Okay. So, when it comes, and let me make this statement slash question. When it comes to men, our body count, it seems to be more popular. But when it comes to women who have a high body count, it don't seem so popular, right? Right. Okay.

[00:07:57] So, when it comes to soul ties and body counts, what can you speak to? Can you speak to something personally? Is there something you want to say personally about that, that you want to share with us? I would say soul ties. Okay. Soul ties are not talked about so much as body count, it really counts as soul ties that you think out of the body count. Okay.

[00:08:23] I think it's, like I told you earlier, I think we need to talk about it more because there's not a true understanding. There's a social understanding of it, but there's no real spiritual understanding of what the soul ties and what it is. So, like, how can you be with someone else if your soul is still tied to the poor people that you was already with? Well, that's the point. Yeah.

[00:08:51] Did you find, did you have any known soul ties? Of course. You know, I was married for like 20 years. That was a soul tie for me. Okay. Yeah. Before that, I had a boyfriend for like years, but that was a soul tie for me.

[00:09:11] Even after I got divorced, I ended up with a soul tie, and I really had to break that soul tie because when I say I just couldn't go on with life because I was tied to this one person, sexually, emotionally, mentally, intimately, it wasn't good for my life. So, what did you find yourself, share, like, when you say a soul tie, and I just kind of want to delve a little bit too deeper into it. Coach, if you've got a question, you can pop up. Yeah.

[00:09:41] What experiences do you, what kind of, how did it cause you to struggle in your relationship? Oh, struggle in my relationship? Mm-hmm. The struggle was I wasn't able to focus on me and just healing from the things that I was going through because I was so wrapped up in this person.

[00:10:04] Like, the things I see on my soul tie is I was just overthinking. Like, I just had to be with this person. Wow. I just had to know where this person was. If I wasn't intimate with them within a certain amount of times, I was, okay, who are you being intimate with? Who are you attacking yourself to? Do me a favor. Do me a favor. Are you on the headset? Are you on the headset? That's it. Uh-uh.

[00:10:34] I'm on speakerphone. Okay, get on speakerphone. Take it on speakerphone. Can you hear me now? Yes. Oh, yeah. Ah, better. Much better. Nah, go ahead. Finish. Okay. No, it was like a crazy thing. It was like, really like a drug. Like, I really just needed to be with this person. Wow. I needed to be around that person. We needed to be intimate. Just things that just wasn't conducive to life.

[00:11:03] Like, it just did not feel good after understanding exactly what it was. It didn't feel good in the moment. It was just a crazy. And that's a deep soul tie from a deep relationship. I think that's part we probably need to go to, too. There's different levels of, there's some that won't even affect you until later in life, and then there's some that's just banging on your door every day, all day long. Right, right. And is that when trauma is involved, you think?

[00:11:33] Like, trauma, that's when it's immediate? I think it's part of trauma because the simple fact of you are, it's almost like rejection or validation. From that person. You're getting validation from that person, from the trauma that you've had in your past because you need that person to validate those feelings for you. Wow. Which that's not really what you need. Wow. You know, you're seeking it, and you're seeking it in the wrong way.

[00:12:04] To me, that's how it came up to me. And that's interesting because I wanted to get a female standpoint. Right. And that's, it's kind of different, but the same. Because from a male standpoint, that's not really how we see it. Right. Do you? No, because we're coming at it from an emotional standpoint. Our soul ties are real emotional. They're not so much sexual, but they're emotional.

[00:12:34] If you think about it. That's deep, though. That's from a female point of view. I would agree. I would think that's true. That's interesting, though. And that's true because for us, it's more physical. Yeah. And we take on more of the, I would say, the more of the hidden things that were passed on to us. Wow. That's interesting. Wow. We still didn't get the body count, though. No, what's the body count? The body count at this point does not even matter.

[00:13:05] Look, so you're a new creature in Christ, right? It's zero, right? Exactly. It don't even matter. It don't look. It don't even count. That's right. That's a good question. Listen, thank you for letting us call you and you being transparent now. Yeah, appreciate that. You're wonderful. Now, we're going to be doing some calling. Don't mess around and get put on the list, but we hit you up every night, then. Oh, my goodness. Y'all are hilarious. You listen to the show, though, right? Yeah, I listen to the show. Do you enjoy it? Yes.

[00:13:35] So, you would... Especially when you start talking about that princess of Munda. Yeah, I do. Put on your red dress. She was the one. She loved to put on your red dress, boy. She was the one. She was the one. Yeah, she put on your red dress. We're going to make a segment up now, Kyle, put on your red dress, and you might be before we call. Put on your red dress. All right, Todd. Thank you so much. I hate his shoes. All right. You're welcome. Take care. All right. Bye. Bye-bye.

[00:14:07] So, a different perspective. Different perspective, dude. Like a female's perspective of it. Sure. That's interesting. All right. Let's laugh. All right. Class clown segment. Why did the cute couple end up in prison? Why? They stole each other's hearts. Okay, that's good. Who was the soulmate of Usain Bolt? Oh, boy. Usain nuts.

[00:14:35] Why did the cannibal break up with his date? Why? Why? She didn't suit his taste. I avoid dating now. Really? Yeah, it's too exhausting to crop off all the social media photos when things don't work out. Oh, man. That's a different type of dating now. That is. It is. Yeah. Isn't that crazy? Yeah. What the hell is social media doing? It has done to us, dude. It has changed. It's changed the whole world. Oh, yeah. Absolutely.

[00:15:04] Mark Zuckerberg is the devil's nephew. I remember a scene in that movie, The Social Network, where he says he gets mad at his friend and he's like, look, we don't even know what it is yet. We don't want ads to mess it up. And now it's all ads. Ads. Right. I get more topics from non-people I don't even know than I do my own friends. You know what I'm saying?

[00:15:34] What do you call a woman who sets fire to all her bills? What? Bernadette. Bernadette. That's good. That would be good to get a hand clap. My spouse and I were happy for 24 years. Really? Yeah. Then we met. Why shouldn't you fall in love with a pastry chef? Why? He'll desert you. Dang. Dang.

[00:16:03] What's the best way to cook toilet paper? Oh, I wouldn't want to. Brown it on one side. Oh, bruh. I had to go dark. And the sex doctor segment falls on me once again. So this is the body count. Do you know how many partners you have had? I don't know. I tried. I told you this week. I was trying to count. And, you know, sadly, I didn't know names, but I knew situations and places. I'm saying, okay.

[00:16:32] Let's get a ballpark for you. You got to give me something. You got to give me something in the ballpark. Are you over 100 or under 100? Oh, my goodness. Why are you even asking that? I'm cutting my pearls. Wait, coach. The fact that you got even asking. Will Chamberlain is over us. Will Chamberlain. No. Chamberlain was in the thousands, man.

[00:17:01] Will Distilt, dude. Will Distilt was in the thousands. Really? He was in the thousands. He said 10,000. Imagine how many soul ties he had, dude. He said 10,000. Oh, no. No, no. Not 10. I think he said 20,000 in his book. Really, dude? Yeah. I got to look that up. You got to look this up. Oh. Don't say it, Will. 20,000. 20,000, dude. Coach. How many? Oh, boy. You're in Chamberlain to sleep with.

[00:17:33] We doing this right on the set. Y'all don't understand how real this is. 20,000. Above, he said that he slept with over 20,000 women. In his life. 20,000. Oh, my goodness, dude. Jeez. Okay. Back to you. Under 20,000. The fact that you got a question over 100. Over 100? In my lifetime? Yes. I don't know. Coach. Coach. I don't know. You're, how old are you?

[00:18:02] 56. If it's over 100, you averaged two women a day. No. No. Hold on. So, you figure. Hold on. I can tell you right. Let's get it. In your life. Calculator. Okay. All right. Calculator. Come on. Because this is interesting. So, if I'm 18. No. Well, you're. No. Go. Well, I started when I was 13, though. Jeez. Please. You're giving up. What the?

[00:18:32] So, 56 minus 13 equals 43 years. So. Oh. Right about. How many? 0.43 or whatever. What is it? Thank you. You screwed two women a day. No. 1.5. You screwed a whole woman and a midget.

[00:19:02] A little person. Yes. Damn, is it? Nah, for me. Yeah. I'm going to tell you. My body count. I'm going to say 30. Honestly. I started when I was 16. I would have thought you would have been higher than that. No. I got about. Well. Because I went to Spain. Wait a minute. See, that's what I'm saying. Yeah, those were. See, that's what I'm saying. You started.

[00:19:31] I bought horse. I got sideways. This was. Let me clean this up. No, no. This was in the 90s. No. This was in the 80s. Mm-hmm. I bought. Yeah. 89. Okay. I bought. Like, I was. We went to. On a six-month cruise. Right. I'm 19. Mm-hmm. And it wasn't for $40. $35, $40. Per.

[00:20:01] It was $25 for the head. No, for everything, though. Oh, wow. So I get treated like a king for $40. For $40. Yeah. So I was spending like. You paid a nice sold tie. Oh, man. So I got a Spanish sold tie. A Turkish sold tie. A Canadian sold tie. Mm-hmm. A French sold tie. Puerto Rican sold tie. Yep. So Puerto Rican. Norwegian sold tie.

[00:20:30] I got a unseasoned chicken sold tie. I got some unseasoned chicken sold tie. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So she says something to Michael did in the conversation. This is what she said. She said after she mentioned her marriage and the divorce, she said she had to break those. Did you hear her say that? Sure. So my question is, well, none. You've broken none.

[00:20:58] Have you wrote them off? You know what I'm saying? You can. I told you about the exercise I did. I wrote them down. That's how I was trying to figure out. That's why I told you I didn't know some names. Okay. But I remember. And I mean, like in order to like write them out of your life. Correct. You're done. Like we're done. Right. I wrote them down. Some people have even gone as far as to write a letter to the person. No. No, I'm serious. Yeah, but I wouldn't. I was in.

[00:21:28] I've been in sessions of, you know, this where this was taking place. And they've admitted that. So it's serious, man. Yeah. It's it. We still on the jokes. Sex. No, the sounds. Oh, sex doctor. I was going to say. So Bible mystery. So. All right. Yeah. God was right. I do a lot of reflection. Oh, was he? And and and I think it sounds crazy, but God was right. You think we should wait until marriage? Oh, we should. It's the best thing. Yeah.

[00:21:58] We should wait until marriage. God was right. I'm just good. We got three, three verses. We'll read them and you can kind of expound. First Corinthians seven verse two. It says, but since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife and each woman with her own husband. So let me tell you what was going on now. Jeez Louise. I hate this.

[00:22:27] And there was a city named Ephesus. Right. And Corinth was. This is the church of Corinth. Right. Right. Ephesus was another city that did something similar to what Corinth was doing. What was happening was they had brothels. Nothing new in the sun. Right. And brothels up on the hill though. So what was happening was the husband start venturing up the hill. Right. You know. Jack and Jill went up the hill. I think that's where they got that from. Right.

[00:22:55] And they went, you know, extracurricular. Sure, sure. Soul time. Soul time. Right. So he had to write this. Look at what he says. He says his own wife. The Bible is particularly when it puts certain words in there. Right. Own. Right. He could have said sexual relations with his wife. He said, no. Own. Make sure it's your own wife. Right. The reason I say that is because you hadn't been doing it with your own wife. You were doing it with somebody else's wife. And with your own husband.

[00:23:24] And the reason I say particularly your own is because you wasn't doing it with your own husband. You were doing it with somebody else's husband. Bare meat. Right. So look at all this crap. Right. So, and he mentioned something. He said, since sexual immorality is taking place, occurring, what's sexual immorality? It was homosexuals, the cheating, infidelity, bestiality. All of it. Everything. Yeah. Bestiality. So he said, y'all listen.

[00:23:54] He says, all this is occurring. Y'all better, you better stay with you. Better dance with the one that got you to the prom. Right. You know? Don't mess with it. Right. Right. So like you said, God was right. God was right. Okay. Next one. Hebrews. Mm-hmm. Let marriage be held in honor among all and let the marriage bed be undefiled. This is good. I get to teach. For God would judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. That's Hebrews 13 verse 4. Exactly. So I hear this all the time.

[00:24:21] The main ingredient in this is that the marriage bed is undefiled, right? People always mention that. The marriage bed is undefiled. Right. Let me tell you something. That means that there's no holds barred between you and your spouse. Right. It's undefiled. It's stupid. You got intense there for a second.

[00:24:46] And the reason I get this type of veracity is because God said it. Right. That's power. When God tell you to tear the bed up, come on, bro. You got permission to go at it. Come on, child. Thanks. We're with you all. Seriously. Yeah. Because I want to tell you something.

[00:25:11] I have had instances because of a soul tie that I was with somebody else and I was thinking about somebody else. And it's like something happened and it wouldn't. Right. Like, what's wrong? It's your mind. Yeah. Sure. Sure. And that's where it takes place at. All right. Second. All right. The last one. First Thessalonians chapter four. Chapter four verses three through four.

[00:25:39] It says it is God's will that you should be sanctified, that you should be. You should avoid sexual immorality, that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable. All right. So let me ask you this. What does that say to you? It says everything that is that has been saying is that that should be between you are chosen one, your soulmate that you're going to tie yourself with. Right.

[00:26:08] There shouldn't be any soul ties. It shouldn't. In a sexual manner. Yeah. So now, obviously, you can have a soul tie. I think you can have a soul tie in a good relationship. Mm hmm. You know. So let me mention this before we move on. And this is a Yoda moment. Watch this. I'm just I'm just throwing this out here. Sure. So the interaction between Adam, Eve and the serpent. Right. Right. Okay. Let's dispel this. It wasn't no apple.

[00:26:38] Baba never says that. Right. It was forbidden fruit. Mm hmm. All right. Which was Eve's womb. Forbidden fruit. Which was Eve. So I think it was sexual in nature and in manner. I think the whole thing that happened was sexual. Because I've eaten plenty of apples. Eating plenty of fruit. I ain't felt naked. I ain't felt ashamed. None of that. Sure. But I have been caught doing something I had no business doing.

[00:27:08] And then shame. You see what I'm saying? So having said that. I'm good. Having said that. Imagine. You're talking about getting soul tie. Say if you had sex with the devil. Imagine what kind of. Imagine what kind of issues that choker got. And when you get. You want to get deeper. If you're having sex with a random female. Are you not. Is that not the same thing?

[00:27:37] But I'm saying. The devil himself. Is that not the same thing? I'm talking about the one. That one that's going to be kissing. The devil would be in her. Yeah. Sheesh. I mean. Imagine. The. I said this to you. Yesterday. When we were talking. And. And if you could picture. A. A. A demonic spirit. Like. Hanging on you. Yeah. Just like a flag.

[00:28:08] Flapping in the wind. But it's hanging on you. So imagine if you had. How many you say? A hundred or something? Oh I don't know. Well I'm just saying. However many. Hanging on you. Right. And whoever else they been with. Right. Because remember now. You don't. You ain't just sleeping with that person. It's multiplied. It's multiplied. Yeah. Does this. Does this give you pause? It does. It did. It did.

[00:28:37] But the. Again. You know. The lifestyle. Was very easy. You didn't know no better. I didn't know any better. I mean. In fact. That was. Early on. That's what was taught. You know. From. Male role models. Right. Older friends. You weren't a real man. If you didn't do that. Right. It wasn't. I wasn't. Not even knowing. You've been thrown in a pit. Yeah. Yeah. And. And women. Typically want to experiment too. Absolutely.

[00:29:07] If you got the confidence. To take it. Till death do us part. Oh yeah. I told you bro. I told you. You listen. I'm telling you. I'm trying to move. I'm trying to move on. How does your spouse's soul ties affect you? Adversely.

[00:29:37] Right. Like. Let me tell you something. They affect you so bad. That you don't know it. I know. You don't realize it. Which is. Which makes it worse. Yeah. Because now. You. You're ill. And you're showing all of the signs of an illness. And yet you're saying you're not ill. Or you're walking around as if you're not. Yeah. It's. That's. It's bad. When you're living. Mentally.

[00:30:07] You're physically. You're here. And mentally you're somewhere else. Absolutely. And living based on. Things that happened. 15. 20. 20. Years ago. Yeah. But that song is like. Your body is here with me. Yeah. But your mind is on the other side of town. Yeah. Stop messing me around. Lord have mercy. It's our boy. Yeah.

[00:30:37] Do we got a call. Let me get out of here man. Man listen. Let me get out of here. I called. You gonna stop. You gonna stop. You gonna stop doing this man. She said she got something good to say. All right. Well you better go on for our call. Yeah. Peace. Hello. Nurse Thickhouse. Peace. Hey Coach Rick. So we got you under. How you doing?

[00:31:06] I'm doing fine baby. Good. How's Mr. Tyrone doing? Oh he fine. Good. I can lay it down. I'm putting them out. We got. I'm putting them out. Rest up Tyrone. I got this. Okay. So we got you under the relationship segment today. I heard you had some good stuff to tell us. So I want y'all to know.

[00:31:35] God was right. Tyrone has been my only soul time. So you been listening to us. Yes. You heard Coach Boston say that. Don't do that. Okay. Go on with what you gonna say. I just sinned. See. In my heart. Coach Boston. I just sinned. Excuse me baby. How did you say you sinned? I sinned in my heart. Coach Boston I had a moment. Okay. All right. All right.

[00:32:05] But when I met Tyrone after I was trying out for the honeybees at Alabama State. Okay. You trying out for honeybees?

[00:32:49] You say you trying out for who? The honeybees. Okay. I got a little dip in my hip now. Okay. Back in the day. Okay. What happened now? But then Tyrone will sweep on my feet. We been together ever since. Oh Lord. Okay. Okay. You tell Coach Boston I said hey now. I will. Thank you so much for coming on. Take care now.

[00:33:26] Oh Lord. Mercy. Mercy. Hold on man. That wiped my eyes. Have you ever heard of the honeybees? Have you ever? They're at Alabama. Apparently they're a group at Alabama State. Yeah. The dancers. Nurse Thiccum. Oh sir. I didn't get the. She just. I never heard of the honeybees before until Nurse Thiccum just said that. Seriously? Yeah. She said she tried out for them. Oh okay. Now I don't know if she let. So you don't get the joke then.

[00:33:56] The real joke is. They all look. They all like your cousin that played for blunt. Ten left guards. I have mercy. Boy. It's over with bro. Alright. Woo. Woo.

[00:34:26] Let me get myself to go. You know it's all about the pimp segment. Pimp. Alright. Do pimps have soul ties for their hoes that leave them?

[00:34:40] Wait a minute. Let me start that over. Do pimps have soul ties for their hoes that leave them?

[00:35:11] Do ex-hoes have a soul tie for their ex-pimp? Listen. Again. Because they were mental. Even if no sex occurred. The game is mental. Control. So. So I guess there's a. So I guess the answer is yes. I mean can you ever leave that? I think so. You can leave it but it's always there. I would love to talk to. An ex-ho.

[00:35:40] A housewife. That used to be. You know. Yeah. I would. I would. We need to get up. I would. I want to talk to one. A working girl. Facts. Yeah. Is there. I mean. How do you deal with your tricks? You know what I'm saying? Do you just cut them off? Like. I saw a movie. Where it depicted a scene. With this. This. This woman that was a. A prostitute. And she really. Cared about this guy.

[00:36:10] And the guy really cared about her. Yet. It was weird. Because he still let her. Work. Right. To the point where. She. He was over there once. And. And. A trick came. It was scheduled. He. And. She didn't want to. Mess up her business. Right. He. She went in the other room. She was like. You know. Just let me take him. He. You know what I'm saying? He. Looking at the dude.

[00:36:42] Just. Just. Run rough shot. Right. Right. He tossing her. Like. I've seen. It's. That's. That's crazy. I've seen more people. But he's got a soul time. With the same dude. He watching. Hit his wife. Sure. Because he finned. Sure. Or hit her. Oh man. I know people that do that. So. Watch this. I'm going to ask this question. Do you think a condom.

[00:37:11] Stops the soul time? No. Not at all. No. That just protects from. Pregnancy and disease. No. It just protects from pregnancy. Disease. You can still get on the balls. Eddie Griffin said it first. He said. You think. That. That can stop. AIDS. No. It's going to get on your testicles. But that. Which have pores.

[00:37:42] You think the AIDS. Going through the pores of the ball? It ain't going through the pores. You want to test it out? No. What. But I'm saying. Think about it. If there's. There's. There's. There's blood. In you. Sort of tear. And it. If you got a pimple. Yeah. On your ball. And they bust. Come on bro. So the condom ain't doing nothing. Okay. I'm just saying dude. All right.

[00:38:12] This is awareness. Awareness. That sounds like a commercial. Time. Energy. And money. All right. All right. You pay. For a soul tie. With a prostitute. Not only. Money. Time. Everything that you lose. You got. You actually. Volunteering to actually. Pay for that. That's facts. Yeah. Yeah. This prostitute. Takes your. Stuff all over the world. And you carry her. All her. Business. To your house. To your house.

[00:38:42] If you're married. If you're married. Or if you're single. If you're single. Wherever you go. Yeah. I had one. Have you ever been with a prostitute? What? Okay. I have. I said I had Turkish. Oh. Spanish. French. We went to a club. We went to a club. In New York. I saw them on the street. You know. You know. I made a mental awareness. I saw where they were. They. We come home after the club. It's probably like. Two. Three in the morning. Right. I get in my car. Drive back to where.

[00:39:11] I saw them where they were. Right. Let me tell you why. It's crazy man. Let me tell you why I look like that. When you mentioned New York. Yeah. And this is me being honest. Transparent. I had to think to see if I had somebody I missed. That I was with there. And to think of it. When New York came up. I did. Another one. When I was making the list. That's how it was coming back to me. It was certain things. You forget them. Uh huh. That's what I'm saying. I forgot. You know what.

[00:39:41] Here's the thing about. What's dangerous about a man. At least me. Uh huh. And it's me being transparent. I'm the type. That I'm old school. Uh huh. One. I don't want to use a rubber. Right. Two. I'm not putting out. That's the whole purpose. For why. We showed up. Why. Would you. Quit the game. At the buzzer beater.

[00:40:11] You never leave the gym. Without making a slash out. Without the buzzer beater. Without the switch. You got to. You got to. You got to. Come on. What's the purpose. Right. Even if you watch. Let's be honest. Even if you watch porn. You see that. When they. New jokers be go go go. You. And then he. Aw. That ain't. Come on bro. That's for.

[00:40:40] You like cream pies. That's for looks. You like cream pies. Yeah. Like. I ain't pulling up. Now. For what. I understand. Come on. It's. That's the. That's the. Creates the soul. Okay. Would you. Yeah. It is. Yeah. Whatever the act is. Either you going broad dog in it. Or you. You know. Whatever you. No matter what it is.

[00:41:10] Yeah. It's creating the soul time. All right. Serenity now. A toxic. Volatile relationship. Hijacks your brain. Let me start over. A toxic. Volatile relationship. Hijacks your brain chemistry. Mimicking a physical addiction. Extreme highs. And lows. Trigger massive dopamine. Spikes. Doing good moments. Excuse me. And severe crashes. Doing the bad. Wow. So true.

[00:41:40] That could be dissected. That's a heavy statement. Yeah. That's so true. From a mental standpoint. That's the whole. Whole toxic. Existence of the soul time. Is that it robs you. Do you know the reason. Why you're toxic. Is because of the soul time. Sure. You. That's why people are toxic. Right. And we don't realize it. We've all been toxic. I was in. In denial. Ain't toxic. Surely not. Surely you just. Surely you just.

[00:42:11] I. Seriously. Yeah. I didn't. I wouldn't. Never toxic. To me. But now. I understand. The things that. The situation I was in. Now hindsight shows me. That's what made me. Impatient. That's what. Made me. Right. Get angry fast. That it was the. It was. I was under. Pressure. Yeah. From trying to.

[00:42:41] Heal. Soul ties. You had that. The stanky one in the car. You were talking about. You had carried her with you. The whole time. Come on bro. Yeah. That's what I'm saying. The one in the. At the little old party you had. Right. All of them was with you. That's crazy. But I didn't realize that. Until I'm. You don't realize it until you're from. Up under it. Yeah. Well you have to be made aware. And then when you. When you're made aware. And you actually start to think. Inwardly.

[00:43:11] You have to think about it. You have to reflect. It's not something that. You're. You walk around thinking about. You know. You have to be. Honest and open with yourself. And just take some time to. To see what. Has happened in your past. Right. And the damage that is done. You need to. You need to. Assess yourself. Assess yourself. And then you need to take action. I got a gash over here. Make that list. Right. Write them off. And you know what. Live a life. That's totally opposite of that.

[00:43:41] And you'll break that. Right. That's the way you. Like I said. God was right. He was. You said something. Blue bag music. Blue bag music. All right. What. Like songs. When you have a soul tie. You have like. There's songs that remind you. Remind you of that person. Oh my goodness. Bruh. You have to change the station. You have to. Or you'll listen to it. You'll get emotional. Ain't that crazy. Yeah. Yeah. There's always a song that you hear. That come across you. It'll just. It'll just take you there. Have you.

[00:44:10] Have you. Have you had more than one? Yes. Okay. Different songs. Different songs. Can you think of one song right now? Not the person. Just the song. Gosh. Michael Franks. I can't think of the name of the song. Right now. I can get mine. Minnie Ruperton. Loving you. Loving you. Yeah. That was. That was. Yeah. Back in. Ooh. That. Love it. Think about that song. Ooh. Ooh. La la la la la. La la la la.

[00:44:40] La la la la la. La la la la. La la la. Do do. Do do. Do do. Do do do. Do do do. Yeah. Yeah. That was good. Perception versus perspective. It's a deep one too. Sometimes. A soul tie. Acts like a mirror. Dang. Our immediate perception. Is that we are utterly obsessed. With. We are utterly obsessed with. Obsessed with. Or bound.

[00:45:10] Bound. To the other person. She just said that. She said that. Right. But with perspective. We see that we are actually bound. To a piece of ourselves. We think we're missing. Like a need for validation. Or a fear of being alone. No. Sometimes. A soul tie. Acts like a mirror. Our immediate perception. Is that we are utterly obsessed. With. Or bound. To the other person.

[00:45:40] Which is what. To Michael said. Mm-hmm. But. With perspective. We see that we are actually. Bound. To a piece of ourselves. We think we're missing. Like a need for validation. Or a fear of being alone. You didn't have to read the rest of it. Because that. Mm-hmm. That was a. That right. That was a precursor. To the end. It was that. That's crazy. That was deep. So. So. What that does is. When I read that. That says.

[00:46:10] Okay Rick. What. Piece. Of yourself. Are you bound to. Wow. That's the question you need to ask. Dang. When it's quiet. Bro. When it's quiet. And you're alone. That's the question you need to ask. You know what. It take a real person. To look. To look in these rooms. To ask these questions. To open. Say hey. Open that. What's behind that door. Otherwise you're just wasting time. If you want honesty. You gotta be transparent.

[00:46:39] Open them doors man. You gotta be transparent. Like you were in the last episode. You gotta be transparent. You know. I wonder. I wonder. If that helped people. If somebody listened to it. They helped them. I'm just gonna. We're gonna say yes it did. It'll make you wonder. Right. Alright. Yeah. Two thumbs up. Same thing. Movies that trigger memories. Movies I don't have that bad. No favorite movies. No series. Something come on the TV. You like.

[00:47:10] Maybe. I guess so. Maybe. Yeah. Not as much as the songs. No. Right. Songs were heavy. That's just. Yeah. Right. Right. Animal Planet. So this is a good question. For. Because I thought about this. With your situation. Pets. After a breakup. Can pets have a soul tie. Or vice versa. Yeah. Have they missed. Uh. If. If they did.

[00:47:40] I think it was like a short period of time. Okay. Because. They go off of energy. I got you. If it's there. Right. If it's there. I'll adapt to this. Sure. It's energy. Sure. They. You know. Wagging to it. So. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. They get that from me. I give it to both of them. Mm-hmm. Because you know. I'm lively with them. I spend the most. I spend the most time with them anyway.

[00:48:10] Right. You know. Right. Uh. So. I fed them the most. Which is big. Because they looking at the person that feed them. Sure. So now. In their minds. There he go. Right. I'm hungry. He's the key to how I feel. Right. Right. So I'm focusing on him. Yeah. So that's really. But. You know. Not that. Not that. Not that they didn't. Wait a minute. Wait a minute. Not that they didn't.

[00:48:39] Spend time. With them. She did. But not as much. I got you. I got you. Yeah. Not as much. Hold on. Yeah. So that's a good question though. Yeah. That is a good question. Well let's go into the art segment. Art segment. Artist Renee Marguerite's masterpiece is an accurate visual picture of a complicated soul tie.

[00:49:06] Two figures embrace and kiss locked in an intense intimate moment but their heads are completely wrapped in white fabric. They are yet. They are entirely blind to one another's true selves. How did you say the last part? Two selves. Two selves. Two selves. Two selves. But the. So it's a picture. They're. You know like two people dressed. Embraced.

[00:49:36] In a passionate kiss. But they got. Like sacks over their head. Wow. Yeah. Both of them have sacks over their head. So they're embraced but they don't see each other. They don't even know who each other is. So. That's crazy dude. This whole soul type thing is heavy. It really is because that's interesting. So do you think that.

[00:50:05] What does that depict though? Does he think it's like if he can't. I think what it's depicting is like I think a lot about in our body counts. That we didn't have any idea who this person was. Dude I told you I took one for the team before. I did. Yeah. In Scotland Neck, North Carolina. We rode past there. Yeah. Yeah. We rode past there man.

[00:50:36] I told you that. I can only imagine. In that area. I did. I took one. Yeah. All right. Comments in cartoons? Yeah. Yes sir. Medusa. It's the ultimate warning of the wrong soul type. She sure is. Yeah. Sheesh. Yeah. Head full of snakes. Turn you to stone. Turn you to stone. Looking at the wrong woman. Again a warning of the wrong. The wrong person.

[00:51:06] You looking at what is this? And bam. So here's the thing right. This is what gets people to start the soul types. Because it's being curious. Sure. And having that angst to do it. Mm-hmm. Because everybody's doing it. Mm-hmm. I hate to say that. I hate to say that. Not everybody's doing it. But I mean it's out there. I'm just. Enough.

[00:51:35] Enough are doing it. For me to say everybody. Yeah. So that's what got me. Mm-hmm. Curiosity. First time I masturbated. Curiosity. Mm-hmm. Everything. Sure. It. So. As long as there's curiosity. I was excited about it man. As a kid. You know. You watch the little shows. You know. You want to. And you see. Man. I.

[00:52:04] Remember Benny Hinn. Yes. Benny Hill. Because you always saw Newt. Benny Hill. Mm-hmm. Not Benny Hinn. He's an advanced. Benny Hill. I'm sorry. Benny Hill. Benny Hill. He was always showing breasts. What? What? I used to stay up late to watch Benny Hill. In black and white. Them jokes will be running back. Benny Hill. He'll be like. Benny. Benny Hill. Benny Hill come up in there. It was breasts after breasts in Benny Hill. Yeah. So you get introduced to it. Mm-hmm.

[00:52:34] And it's like an aphrodisiac after that. Right. Oh man. Do you remember the first time you climaxed in a woman? Yeah. Oh yeah. How old were you? 13. What? 13. 13. You just took a deep breath in. You said. 13. And I didn't even really know what to expect of what I was doing.

[00:53:01] Because you know as a kid you know you play little grinding games. You know you grind against a girl. Right. But to actually be inside one at 13 I didn't know. I was 13. Glue your top. I was just. Let's see. You know. Got up with. Man I sat in the tub.

[00:53:28] I sat in the tub man. I was like. What did I just do? What did I. I can smell her on me too. Oh. Oh. Oh she has you early coach. Look at your neighbor. Come on neighbor. All right. Is it harping on the past? Or can certain blacks be cursed from slavery or Jim Crow days? Soul ties? Of course.

[00:53:58] You know why? Because the master was sleeping with the wives. Right. And even bucking. You know buck breaking. The men. The buck broke the men. Penetration. Right. Yeah. Come on. Yeah. Ill. I'm just saying. And that's a soul tie. Right. So imagine that. And you know what I want. This is what I should have asked to Michael. If a woman is raped. Mm-hmm. By a man. Yeah. Does that form a soul tie?

[00:54:28] It has to. It does. Because she's got to expel that from herself in order to get over it. Right? Yeah. Same way if a man is molested by a woman. It's a soul tie. It's one of the worst soul ties. It's a traumatic soul tie. I just realized. It's a traumatic soul tie. Yeah. I got to go back to healing and deliverance. Put in your red dress. Put in the high of the cheese.

[00:54:58] African proverb. When spider webs unite, they can tie up a lion. That's crazy. Something that's so weak. But if you unify it. So many. So many webs. So many soul ties. And you're the lion though. Of course. Yeah. Which reminds me.

[00:55:24] How can something so funny looking have you so strung out? Remember when we talked about it? A little patch of hair. That's the thing. No. A shaved one is really weird. Remember when we talked about that? It's what it is though. But how can it have you like that?

[00:55:54] Since the earliest time of man. It's been that way. Adam and Eve. Yeah. I mean if you're talking about the very first thing that was sinned. Was that? So listen to me. So it's got power. So God said something to Adam, right? We give out the punishment to the serpent Eve. Gets to Adam and say. He said Adam I got an issue with you. He said the issue I got is that. The first issue is that.

[00:56:25] You listen to the woman voice over mine. Pause. Right. What in the world kind of influence did Eve have? For her to make him ignore God's voice. Right. And it wasn't like it was nobody else. I'm saying. The answer is obvious. Right. The kootenu. Kootenu. The kootenu. That made that joke up. Ignore God.

[00:56:55] The kootenu. That's how David said it. Now God made that. He put that together. Right. That's his recipe. Right. Oh and it's delicious. Yes. Chinese proverb. Okay.

[00:57:22] It says past life grievances become this life's entanglements. Oh. Two people are bound by karmic debts from unresolved conflict or obsession in the past. That's what that means. Past life grievances become this life's entanglements. That's crazy bro. Okay. If you don't move on that's what it'll be. That's what it'll be. So you got to move on. All right. Huddle up with her. Oh no. Oh yeah. Huddle up with her. Oh. Oh.

[00:57:52] Omaha. Yeah. Omaha. Omaha. That's that. That's that. That's that. That's that. Peyton Manning. Put on my still account. Do athletes and celebrities have more soul ties than the average person? Absolutely. Yeah. All that access. Thank you. Think about that bro. And I thought about that too. Actually I didn't even know you was going to bring that up in the show. Absolutely. Yeah. Hollywood is a cesspool. What about Kardashian?

[00:58:21] Hollywood is a cesspool. Sheesh. They ain't the ball too. Yeah. That's a cesspool. Right. And now like we said we brought up Atlanta. Look at the soul ties there. Sheesh. All over. What about New Orleans? Oh it's a lot of souls. That's what I'm saying. When the. You got a lot of people that's not. It's not really caring about.

[00:58:50] Just the sex. At a young age. And it's happening at a young age out there. And you just kind of out there doing what you know going with the flow. Next thing you know. You're an adult with. A high body count of soul ties. You know. So. Yeah. I mean it can be. It can't. I mean. I don't know what to say. All right. Red flags. All right. Someone. High body count. Someone.

[00:59:18] Someone who is willing to have sex with you right after meeting you. Whether it be male or female. You know that happened to me in Virginia. Sure did. I met at a club. Caught a taxi. Went to the hotel. Motel. Bop. Bop. Bop. Bop. Yeah. Told me how healthy I was.

[00:59:47] You're very healthy. You know you're very healthy. Okay. All right. Come on. Okay. Health is well said. Look. You're very healthy. Yeah. How does walking.

[01:00:15] Help with positive and negative soul types. We're walking. So you're into walking now. Yes. Which I've been doing for the past. 11 years. Yeah. You didn't tell me nothing about the walking. Yeah. You kept it a secret y'all. I had to discover it on my own. What kind of friend is he? Nah. But. It doesn't. Break a soul type. No. But it. I think it helps you deal with it mentally. Awareness. Okay. Processing. Yeah. Yeah.

[01:00:45] Clear thoughts. Clear thoughts. Knowing which way to maneuver and move. So you. So. So. And I think. And also just saying. Taking action verbally. Saying look. I'm going to go this way. I'm going to do this. So have you personally. Decided that you're going to. Attack these soul types. And say hey you know what. We done. So I can start this new. Well I did. I did that. When I was making a list. That time. Really? That's how I did that. That's how I got to the body count.

[01:01:15] I was like. Trying to figure. Figure it out. So. Yikes. So it was done on purpose to. Rid. Rid myself of all of them. Boy. Coach just. Boy. He just let out one man. Did you hear me earlier. When I said I had to go back. Through healing and deliverance. Yeah. So that's. That's. I've been through it. I've been through it. As a. Receiving it. And as. A. Teacher. Director of it.

[01:01:45] So. But we. You go through. Refresher like. You know. Like certain areas. Like hey you know what. I might be struggling in this area. It's always good. Sure. Really really good. Lost in translation. Let's go. All right. In Spanish speaking cultures. Salando. Or salting someone. Means bringing them bad luck. Often through like a. Pessimistic or negative comment. Like. If you tell someone about a dream. And they make a discouraging remark. They salando your plans. Wow.

[01:02:15] Pouring salt on you. Right. So in Spanish culture. They believe that. The word curses. Word curses. Word curses. Wow. Yeah. Word curses. Wow. All right. Sorry not sorry. The power of tongue guarding. How the words. We allow others to speak over us. Can alter our perception. Of our own capabilities. Effectively acting as a physiological. No. Psychological. Curse. Until we continuously break it.

[01:02:45] Facts. Facts. 100% facts. Right. So we got. Words are very powerful. We have to watch how we say stuff. Some people. Even in jest. Even in jest. Some people. Some people take a little too far though. I remember I was on. Went on a cruise. With some people. Some of them I wanted to be on a cruise with. Some of them I didn't. Anyway. We were out in the water. We were in. We were in beautiful places.

[01:03:14] I can't remember. Where you could see. Down to the bottom. To the water. So his son was there with me. And he was like. Oh man. I swim out there by that. Sitting says. I was like. Man. I don't know if you could do that. And as soon as I said it. Yes he can. His dad. Yes he can. Like. Don't tell my son what he can't do. Well I wasn't saying it like. Right. You know. Right. So he was. You know what I'm saying. A little bit too sensitive. Mm hmm. But you can tell when it's. When it's malice with it.

[01:03:44] If somebody's malicious with it. Right. I'm trying to tear you down. You know. Like mayor this. This. That. You know what I'm saying. Like I'm good. Remember. You'll know. Remember. You'll know. Remember this movie. Why you laughing. I didn't even give you to yet. Oh no. Pause. Why you laughing. I ain't told you yet. And he. Remember. Remember the movie. Thinner. Thinner.

[01:04:14] So there was this movie. So there was this man driving. And he lived around this Egyptian neighborhood. You know. Egyptian. You know. Gypsies. They rough. Right. Right. Word cursors. So this man was driving. And his daughter. He had an obese daughter. Yes. And he hit this man's daughter by mistake. Yes. And that man said. Thinner. Yes. He wiped his face. Right. Thinner. And he got it. And that joker was losing. He didn't care what he ate.

[01:04:42] That nigga ate a 12 piece. He was still losing weight. Still looked like he was smoking crack. Oh boy. Put it on him. That word cursors. Thinner. Thinner. That's what he said. Thinner. God damn. I remember that. I remember that. You started laughing before I even gave you the movie. I was laughing at something else though. I was laughing at something else. I gotcha.

[01:05:13] Alright. Would you rather have a toxic soul tie? Or would you rather believe that something negative about smoking about you? I would deal with the latter. Because I could do something about that one. I could do something. I could say hey you know what they're lying. That ain't you. But the toxic soul tie is harder now. Because now you're dealing with somebody else. Right. Somebody said to me that's a lie. Okay. I can convince myself hey that's a lie. Right. I can refute that. So okay.

[01:05:45] What do you think it's like to have a soul tie with her? Wow. Go ahead. That made you stop. That make nut. That make nut. Soul tie. Come on. You got the first line. Invisible. An invisible thread of silent grace. Binding two hearts across time and space.

[01:06:15] Not a chain that holds but a root that grows. The quietest love that the spirit knows. We are two trees and roots entwined. Oh come on. Read that again. Did I mess it up? Yeah. We are two trees with roots entwined. A deeper bond than words designed. Even in silence the current flows. Where your soul ends and my soul go. Oh that last line was heavy.

[01:06:46] That was a heavy uh. That last line was heavy. All right. Mary's Nerd Nugget Fun Fact. Let's go. My favorite. Frederick Bauer was the inventor of Pringles. Is actually buried in one. His ashes are buried in the Pringles box. Oh so they cremated them. Cremated them. And put them in a Pringles can. And buried them. You know. I'm not mad at that. I'm not mad at that.

[01:07:16] At first I was gonna laugh. That's fire though right? That right. That's player. Player stuff. You wouldn't know I said fire. Put anything on my still account. Yeah. All right. Did you know. Treadmills were originally torture devices for prisoners. No I didn't. And they was getting in shape. They kicked their ass. And they getting in shape to kick their ass. And they kicked their ass. And the inmates in shape.

[01:07:45] The guards is out of shape. They take a riot. Take out. They can't even fight them all. Because they in shape. Right. Right. Wow. Things that make you go. Uh huh. Okay. Have you ever heard of the story of the Hillside Stranglers? No. Kenneth Bianchi and Angelo Buono were cousins. In 1977. They were pretending to be police officers. Abducting women. Uh huh. And then they were killing them. So they pulled over. What?

[01:08:15] One lady named Catherine Lohr. And when they got her ID. They found out she was the daughter of Peter Lohr. Who was the actor in Casablanca. The Maltese Falcon. And that was their favorite actor. So they let her go. Yeah. So later. Years later. They. When they finally caught them. She noticed them on TV. She said. Those are cops that stopped me. Oh my goodness. She was lucky.

[01:08:44] Boy. Are you talking about benefiting from who you know? She was about to get sliced up. I'm talking about eight up. Church announcements. All right. Deacon S. Tucker would like to remind the congregation. The peacemaking meeting scheduled for today has been canceled due to a conflict. I wonder what.

[01:09:04] All right. In 1 Corinthians chapter 6 verse 16. It says. Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute. Uh huh.

[01:09:34] Is one with hurt in body. For it is said the two will become one flesh. Oh man bro. I knew you was going to do this. So. That in and of itself. Again. Corinth. Right. Again. In and of that in and of itself is self explanatory. Right. But I want to hook something to that. In the Old Testament. There was a. And what's crazy. God told me I was going to be able to tell this. So that was the.

[01:10:04] When. When Israel was traveling. They traveled through this place called Midian. Right. People were Midianites. Where the Midianite women. Just. They were just really fine. Really just. Picture Brazilian women. Whatever. Voluptious. They. The Midianite women. They just were fine. Right. Jacked up. Real jacked up. Mm-hmm. Just. But just fine. Kind of like the women today. The prettiest ones. It's the craziest ones. Those were the Midianite women. You look at them and do it. Oh. In their mouth.

[01:10:34] They're like. Oh. Oh. But they are beautiful. Right. But they just got tempers. They're angry. Been hurt. Mm-hmm. Nothing that said. So. God told Moses and Joshua. He said listen. When you're going through Midian. Mm-hmm. Don't stop and mess with these women. I'm. I know what they look like. Mm-hmm. Keep going. Oh. Mm-hmm. They got there and started messing with them. And he told him this.

[01:11:03] He said this is why you shouldn't mess with them. He said because if you do. You're going to start taking on their customs. Their ways. And then eventually you'll start bowing down. To their God. Mm-hmm. Right. He said I don't want that. Well. Needless to say. They go through Midian and they stop. Mm-hmm. That's where they start running the train on the Midian night woman dude. In the tent. He brought it into church.

[01:11:32] And they ran a train on him. Mm-hmm. He told him not to do that. So guess what happened? A plague. Mm-hmm. Now you got soul ties. And you know what? I see now why God was killing these people. Keep it off. Because now you got soul ties. Right. And you finna get back in the camp with the rest of the folk that didn't do nothing wrong. He's going to screw them.

[01:12:04] I didn't even. What? I didn't even hit that. I know. But I see that now. Right. God. God just hit the button. God hit the button. He did. Literally. Yoda. I hit the table. Yoda. He just. Yeah. That's amazing. Right? Okay.

[01:12:34] Quotes of the week. Get out of here. Do we? Just because the connection is intense doesn't mean it is intended for your destiny. Some ties are meant to teach you how to stand on your own. Oh, man. Keep one. Put her on my Stella account. Heavy. Come on. Put her on my Stella account. The more you explain yourself, the less you listen to yourself.

[01:13:05] I'm going to move on. You so on, Wendy. Come on. The hardest part of breaking a tie isn't letting go of the other person. It's forgiving yourself for the boundaries you let them cross while you were trying to make them. What? Coach.

[01:13:33] Stop eating my sesame kicks. Stop eating my sesame kicks. Sheesh. What you delay today quietly becomes the life you live tomorrow. Blue horse you love. Anacostia. The life that drains you is often the one you keep justifying. Dude, you talking. Watch it, lift.

[01:14:02] Watch it, you loser. You're not stuck. You're holding on. I bet I'll choke it. Life at this whole page. Bruh. Final drives. Third and short segment, bruh. Who you got? Spain or Argentina? Really? I haven't been following it. I thought about you today.

[01:14:31] Argentina's been winning all in the last seconds. When I saw something today on it, I thought about you. I said, okay, coach will probably be watching. When are they playing? Sunday. Okay, what time? About two o'clock. What network? Fox. I'm going to watch. Fox. Just because you said that. Yes. So who you got? I got Argentina. Really? Although I think Spain's going to win. So I saw where, I don't know how long it's been, Poland. I saw when they lost. They was out there trying to fight.

[01:15:02] Oh, you talking about Norway. Norway. Norway. The sweet, the big Norwegians. And Ireland was drunk. Yeah. They were pushing each other. Pushing each other. Yeah, yeah. Couldn't even punch. Yeah. I got tired of watching it. All right. This is a good one. Hopefully it doesn't happen. We were talking about the Hillside Stranglers. So I thought about this. If you're being assaulted or kidnapped, potentially, the things you can do is to keep your calm,

[01:15:30] obviously, and spit on the ground. DNA. Because that's your DNA. Right. So spit, if you can, on the ground or on them. Number two, if you can, scratch them. Because now their DNA is under your nails. Yep. So it makes it easier for the police to catch. Right. Third, and this is a situation, if you can't speak and you're in danger, call 911 and ask for a pizza.

[01:15:59] I've actually heard of that before. Yeah. They had that in a movie. Yeah. It's not official. Yeah. So it's not like they're going through routine. Some people catch on, though. Some people catch on. But if they, a good operator will handle that. Dispatch. They'll catch on. A good dispatcher will. Yeah. Never have I ever. We hadn't done this scene like this. We hadn't done this in a minute. So this is, remember E-40, the song? Yep. Yep. Mm-hmm. Nope. Yep. So we got yep for yes and nope for no. Right.

[01:16:24] Never have I ever skipped a great song in the car because I knew the memory attached to it would ruin the rest of my day. Yep. Yep. Never have I ever driven past a specific exit or building and felt the physical weight in my chest just because of who used to live there. Yep. Yep. Never have I ever posted a specific song, lyric, or quote on my story purely as bait to see if that one specific person would view it. Nope.

[01:16:52] Never have I ever had to completely delete a playlist because I felt like a spiritual contract I needed to tear up. Nope. Nope. Never have I ever blocked and deleted someone. Felt like the bad guy for doing it but realized later it was the healthiest decision I ever made. Yep. And thank you to our incredible listeners.

[01:17:22] Thank you for being a part. We both said that so regretfully like. Yep. On and off to feel family. Don't forget to like or follow us on your favorite podcast platform. Actually, so we've been researching. Apple Podcasts is our biggest platform for some reason. Wow. People are listening to Apple Podcasts. Shout out to y'all. Yeah. Yeah. And of course, our website, on and off the field with a DA.com.

[01:17:51] And we got our cash app on there now so that we can. Y'all throw out some money so we can buy some more equipment. Yeah. We want to make the show better. Yeah. We're just trying to, you know, stay in y'all life. On and off the field. With a purpose. Our podcast with a purpose. We got the on the field coach. That's the show. This is your boy Coach Barson, a. He's still in nation since 1976. Man, you got the Yoda man, the infamous one since 1968.

[01:18:19] Shout out to the legend Calvin Roy Hesley is his name. Shout it out. Shout out to him, man. Episode 84, man. You had the soul tie with the Indian girl. With the Indian girl. This is soul tie. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

[01:18:48] Yeah. Like, was he aware of soul ties? That he was breaking? No, of course my dad didn't. So that would have been passed on him? Yeah. I need to watch it. You need to research that Indian tribe. See what's out there. Do they get angry fast? I don't know. I get angry. They get drunk, though. Oh, yeah. I got to watch that. Yeah. They be drinking. My dad, yeah. Wow. I don't get drunk, though. I don't like to get drunk. I like it when I have that nice buzz. Just one good. A nice one drink is good.

[01:19:18] How do we even start talking about this? We supposed to be closing the show. You want something? Give me a Diablo sandwich and a Dr. Pepper and make it a hurry. I'm on a goddamn hurry. The way he ate that sandwich. I know. And he hit his chest. He had to hit his chest to build. What the hell? Give me a Dr. Pepper and a Diablo sandwich. All right, man. Episode number 84. We out. No way. No way.

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